Life and opinion are a given right

Of late I have found that everyone around me wants to cut down on my ability to live my life, make my decisions and in general be a person. Lately people see fit to clown you for your deficiencies and short comes all the while simultaneously never acknowledging that their own exist. Everyone in my family has the same problems, short comings, and characters flaws as I possess just in different ways. Far from being perfect they only act as though they are. I on the other hand see the real them on the inside and what I find is not pretty at all. It is a family that is in deep denial about its own innate issues. Rectifying this situation is an immensely difficult task.